The Family That Runs Together…

The Family That Runs Together…

FeatureVol. 9, No. 2 (2005)March 200511 min read

Only a pale and shrinking ribbon of light blue hovers over the Front Range of the Colorado Rocky Mountains on a mid-May evening. As shadows deepen over spring-lush hills, low mesas, and the glassy, cloud-reflecting surface of Boulder Reservoir, coyotes take up a chorus to the north and bats arch through the gloaming in pursuit of insects. A white pelican glides toward the water, its profile in the dusk like a creature lost in time, like a pterodactyl.

And here comes Dick Ehret, deeply involved in and concentrating on his performance in the first-ever 24 Hours of Boulder ultrarace. Blue-haunted light from his LED headlamp cuts into the darkness as he rounds  Dick Ehret on the first leg of the Ehret Family “All a last curve toward the race’s in the Family” team relay at the 24 Hours of Boulder single aid station, where three race in May 2004. volunteers listen to the coyotes, huddle against the chill, and occasionally snatch an M&M or a potato chip. Ehret, 71, pulls up a few yards from the aid station and walks in, looking weary. He is on his third 7.14-mile lap of the day. “Can I sit somewhere?” he asks, face shiny in the lantern light, breathing hard. Ehret finds a chair and plops down. He seems momentarily confused but sits up straighter

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Owhen someone casually mentions that the grumbling clouds to the west seem to promise rain. “I hope so,” he says, standing after just a couple of minutes’ rest, energized by the thought of rain. “That would be nice.” Dick Ehret likes to run in the rain. And the snow. Wind doesn’t seem to bother him, either, nor heat. And, he says cheerily, “I love to run uphill and into the wind.” But he especially likes the rain.

KEEPING TEAM SPORTS IN THE FAMILY

The Ehret Clan, including son-in-law Peter Bakwin) at 24 Hours of Boulder.

Peter Bakwin

Refreshed now and hopeful that Mother Nature will give him a boost, he plunges back into the cool spring night, just more than 3 1/2 miles from where he will hand off the baton to his wife, Cynthia, 69. She will walk her laps of the out-and-back course, then pass the baton to the speedier half of the “All in the Family” team, their daughter Stephanie Ehret, 41, and her husband, Peter Bakwin, 42. “

I was the slacker of the team with only four laps,” Bakwin says when it’s all over, though perhaps he can be forgiven for his “laziness”: the weekend before, he ran the Massanutten Mountain Trail 100 race in Virginia.

Stephanie and Peter, of Boulder, and Dick and Cynthia, of nearby Longmont, Colorado, aren’t the only ultrarunning clan out there, but they may be one of the most unusual. “Oh, there are other families out there,” Stephanie says after her mother has taken off, walking her first leg under cloudy skies. “But usually they are parents my age and their kids.”

Among the four-person teams in the 24 Hours of Boulder competition, the three Ehrets and Bakwin (who has taken the place of Stephanie’s younger sister, Liza, a more casual runner who was unable to participate because of a scheduling conflict) easily have the most years between them at 223. Not that age is holding anybody back; the team will finish at a hot Sunday noon with more than 18 laps and 129.6 miles. Dick is the team’s workhorse, finishing the race with more than six laps and 43 miles, one more than his superstar daughter, who in November 2003 won the Javelina 100 in Arizona

overall, beating all male and female competition, and who in October 2004 would take the bronze in the International Association of Ultrarunners 24Hour World Cup in Brno, Czech Republic, with 140.16 miles. “

I’m hoping to get at least five loops,” Dick said two weeks before the race. “I feel like I’m in better shape than ever. I’m running and biking, crosstraining, and I’m just learning how to swim. I’m going to try a triathlon.” Not every family is thrilled when a member gravitates toward the world of ultrarunning. “You’re crazy,” many accuse, voicing the sentiment of most of those unfamiliar with the sport, while others huff and puff that injury or even death will almost certainly result.

But not Dick and Cynthia Ehret. When their middle daughter, Stephanie, ran her first ultras— the Kokopelli Trail 50K, the Mile High 50 Mile, the Helen Klein 50 Mile, and the Across the Years 24-Hour in 1998—they didn’t worry in the least. “

I guess we were not that aware of the extremity of it,” says Cynthia, a compact, smiling, bespectacled woman with a vestigial Boston accent.

PERSONALLY CHECKING IT OUT But it wasn’t until 1999 that Dick and Cynthia decided to go watch their daughter compete in the grueling, legendary Leadville Trail 100 race amid the high peaks of Colorado, on a course that never dips below 10,000 feet and climbs as high as 13,000 feet. That event made them realize that their daughter was doing more than just trotting around the block, or even running a marathon. “They kept saying to her ‘Put on all your jackets so you’ll weigh enough at the aid station,’” Cynthia recalls with a smile. “[Stephanie] was saying to Peter,

Peter Bakwin

Cynthia Ehret walks her laps at 24 Hours of Boulder.

Peter Bakwin

‘How do you know when to quit?’ I saw Buzz [Burrell, a Boulder ultrarunner and friend of the family] crying by the side of the road.” Stephanie herself was throwing up for the last 60 miles of the grueling race.

But rather than worry, Dick and Cynthia encouraged and began crewing for their daughter, whose ultrarunning resume now includes such feats as an overall win and course record at the November 2003 Javelina 100 trail race in Arizona

and second overall, and first among women—with a course record—at the 2004 Across the Years 24-Hour race. After all, they reasoned, Stephanie had never turned away from a challenge even as a little girl, and she had always done fine. Scratch that: She had driven herself

to become a serious competitor. “Her heritage drives her to do what she does,” Cynthia says of Stephanie. “Dick is driven, especially athletically, to get out and move.” Cynthia never thought of herself as especially athletic, though she walks

every day, come rain, snow, hail or tornado. OK, she hasn’t walked in a tornado, but it’s the thought that counts. Usually she saunters between two and six miles. But after crewing for her daughter at Across the Years, she got a little advice. “

Stephanie said, ‘If you’re getting cold at night, why don’t you start walking?’” [the course], Cynthia says. “So the next year I signed up.” Cynthia strolled her way to 33.3 miles in that first race,

and since then also has done a 50K walk and another 24-hour race in Kansas. “I always stop at midnight,” she says. “I don’t think of myself as being in shape, except my legs. I can’t run at all because

I have a bad back. Walking’s fine, but I know there’s a big difference.”  Stephanie Ehret on a leg of the relay. Still, having crewed for her daughter, husband, and son-in-law on various races and adventures, she knows

that walking ultradistances has at least one thing in common with running ultradistances: “It’s here,” Cynthia says, tapping her temple. “That’s what it’s all about, as far as I’m concerned.”

PASSING OUT MENTAL TOUGHNESS If Stephanie Ehret inherited her athletic ability, strength, and endurance from her active father, she surely drew her remarkable tenacity—read: mental toughness—from both of her parents.

“I didn’t really think of myself as being particularly athletic” as a girl, recalls Stephanie, a petite, sculpted, rock-solid runner with long, golden hair and blue eyes that seem to promise laughter at any time. “I think it was more than that. I was just very achievement oriented, whether in sports or academics or something extracurricular.”

Attending elementary school and junior high in Boulder, Stephanie’s first athletic love was gymnastics. She didn’t play team sports (“unless you count cheerleading”) but realized she had athletic aptitude while participating in the Presidential Fitness Program that so many middle-aged “kids” now remember from the Nixon era. The program was a school-run certification of students’ rope climbing, push-up, chin-up, sit-up abilities, and the like. “That really suited me. I realized I was really competitive,” Stephanie says. “I remember they had a chin-up hold for girls, and the guy giving the test basically just told me to stop. Anything that required tenacity over skill, I was good at.”

But running and other aerobic pursuits were always a part of the Ehret household. Dick was an outdoorsman who led his children up many of Colorado’s storied 14,000-foot peaks. And long before it was hip, he loved to run. “

I even ran some with my dad early on,” Stephanie recalls. “I remember him running in stretch slacks, a sweatshirt, and a really huge towel around his neck. We’d just run around the block a few times.” The five Ehret children spent their childhood in a brick-and-wood home in the heart of Boulder’s historic, idyllic Mapleton Hill neighborhood. Dick worked as an electronic technician at the U.S. Bureau of Standards in Boulder (now called the National Institute of Standards and Technology), and Cynthia ran a day care for 15 to 20 children out of their home for more than 20 years.

From the house on Mapleton Hill, Cynthia had only to step out the door to take one of her daily walks beneath soaring maple trees or in the grass-clad, piney foothills just minutes away. Today, Stephanie and Peter Bakwin live just a few blocks from the home where she grew up, but Dick and Cynthia have relocated 10 miles northeast to Longmont. “One thing I really miss about living in Boulder was waking up to the chatter of all the runners going by on Fourth Street,” Cynthia says wistfully.

During her years at Boulder High School, Stephanie acknowledges that her biggest activity was spending time with Peter and their friends, drinking beer and suntanning. But even then, the couple would spend time and energy on activities many people considered extreme, from exploring Colorado’s Fulford Cave to winter camping (and yes, beer drinking) at Great Sand Dunes National Monument.

A NATURAL PROGRESSION “When [Stephanie] started doing the ultrarunning, I realized that she’s always done extreme things,” Cynthia says, “starting with cliff jumping at Gross Reservoir”—a

Peter Bakwin

mountain lake southeast of Boulder that supplies water to nearby Denver, where swimming is strictly verboten. And both friends and family recall that Stephanie’s relationship with Bakwin brought out the competitor in both of them. The song “

Anything You Can Do, I Can Do Better” well sums up their relationship of more than a quarter century. At Vassar College in Poughkeepsie, New York, Stephanie ran an eight-mile loop every day, never varying her course, proving early on her ability to play the

mental game necessary to be a successful ultrarunner. “Like most college students, I did it for stress reduction and weight management. I was really disciplined about it, and really enjoyed it,” Stephanie says. “But at the same time, I was smoking

and drinking a fair amount and studying all night.” Then, from her sophomore to senior years, she ran for the Vassar cross-country team. “I think I was fairly competitive but nothing really special,” she says. “But

I would always race well, and that continues to be true, in terms of how I train. I do tend to race pretty well, to rise to the occasion. At Vassar, I had some good races, but I wasn’t the star.” Despite her remarkable record of success—a glance at her resume of 20-plus

ultraraces shows that she rarely finishes below first, second, or third place among

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women, and often overall—Stephanie is known for her relatively relaxed approach to training. She is an intuitive rather than calculated trainer, but she knows her body extremely well. Early on, she had her share of problems, such as a dangerous case of rhabdomyolysis—when skeletal muscle breaks down and proteins cause kidney malfunction—which happened after the 1998 Across the Years race. [See M&B, May/June 2000.]

Now, she is happy to simply run without pressuring herself, though if anything, she is performing better than ever. “I’m no longer as interested in the achievement part of it. I’m not getting any younger or faster, and I don’t need that. I don’t need the accolades that come with doing well in an ultra.”

But keep in mind that Stephanie Ehret’s standards are high. The weekend before the 24 Hours of Boulder race, she participated in her first orienteering event, the 24-hour World Rogaining Championship in Arizona. Seven days later, she was kicking out eight-minute miles at Boulder on the second of her five loops for the “All in the Family” team.

After college, Stephanie moved to Cambridge, Massachusetts, where Peter was attending graduate school at Harvard University. The couple ventured out nearly every weekend for white-water canoeing, cycling, rock climbing, and running. “We were strictly weekend warriors,” Stephanie says. Then, in 1988, they decided to run a small road race, the Boston Peace Marathon. They ran every mile together on a course around segments of the Charles River and “really had a blast,” Stephanie says.

THAT FIRST THREE-HOUR-LONG RUN She remembers one particular revelation from training for that first marathon: “After our first three-hour run, we were so proud of ourselves. It seems funny now, but it was great.”

Years later, her mother has similar thoughts about the relative difficulty of moving from marathon-distance races to the great beyond: “I say ‘only a marathon’ now,” the 69-year-old says, “because I’ve seen people doing 100 miles, and a marathon doesn’t seem that far now. And people running up mountains, instead of on the flats. You get very blasé about it after a while.”

In 1991, Peter and Stephanie came back to Boulder to live. He leveraged his Ph.D. from Harvard into a job as a physicist for the National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration, and she was the curator of a small art museum in Longmont. Just as in Cambridge, they headed outdoors virtually every weekend, adding snowboarding and mountain biking into the mix of activities.

Ultimately, climbing Colorado’s legendary fourteeners (the 54 peaks above 14,000 feet in the state) planted the seeds of their ultrarunning careers to come.

“We climbed most of the fourteeners, and those were really our ‘ultrarunning’ routes in those years. We kind of got greedy for fourteeners, for doing more in a weekend, so we’d run down the peaks,” Stephanie says. Meanwhile, during the week, Stephanie had begun to run with some “faster, fitter, more ambitious” male friends in Longmont on her lunch hours. Although she was keeping up with them, she realized that longer runs—at that point, a half-marathon seemed long—might be her forte. So in 1995, she trained for and ran the Imogene Pass run in western Colorado. She prepared a long time, mentally and physically, for the 18-mile, high-elevation, 11-mile-uphill, seven-mile-downhill race, going so far as to tape a map of the course above her desk to motivate herself. “

I did it and it was great. I consider that to be the beginning of my ultra days,” she says. But as accomplished as Stephanie is, the real marvel of the family may be her father. Dick Ehret is, unsurprisingly, slim and tautly muscled, his lanky frame tanned an even gold during the warmer months. He smiles almost incessantly from behind his eyeglasses, even when running distances that would make the average American 25-year-old quail and collapse. His 78-mile finish in Across the Years 2002-03 was enough to earn him 16th place overall in the 24-hour race, and he finished first in his age group in the inaugural Boulder Backroads Marathon in 1999.

THE SECRET TO ULTRA SUCCESS Dick says he has learned the secret to successful ultrarunning: Take it slow. “When I started [doing ultras], I didn’t really gain much expertise. The first time I did Across the Years I was just running 20 miles and I thought, ‘Wow. I’m in good shape.’” he says. “But when I ran 20 miles, my legs got sore to the point where I couldn’t run. I realized that in order to go longer, I needed to go a little slower.”

After running 83 miles in this year’s 24-hour Across the Years race, Dick has now done that race five times, as well as the 50-mile course in the Olmstead 100 in Kansas two times. /QQ: is this the Ad Astra 100K in Wichita? He ran 50 miles in that race in 2003 when Cynthia Ehret (and I) did the 50K. The only 100-mile in Kansas is the Heartland Run, and his name is not in its results. See Kansas Ultrarunners site at www.ultrarunners.info. XQQ/

Like his daughter, for years Dick didn’t feel the need to have a very specific training regimen, doing it mostly by feel, running out from his home to nearby lakes. But a couple of years ago, he took Bobby McGee’s “Happy Running” course and found a new way of training that has bumped up his performance considerably. “

You don’t put in miles. That won’t help you,” Dick says. “If you train, you run 100 yards. On a track, you walk the curves and run the straights.”

He now runs sets in the McGee regimen and doesn’t ever run more than 20 miles: “I don’t run more than 50 miles a week. That way, I don’t hurt myself.” Cynthia is visibly bemused that her husband is now such a true believer in any kind of training regimen. “

If you’d told him before he had to train for something, he’d have laughed you off,” she says, shooting Dick a wry glance. “He didn’t do it until he decided he had a reason.” “And I’m going to go back to Bobby McGee,” Dick says enthusiastically. “I want to run Boston. I’m going to have him train me for the next [Boulder] Backroads [Marathon]. I have to run four and a half hours to qualify for Boston.”

But in truth, for a “slow” runner, Dick Ehret can move pretty fast. On the downhills of the 24 Hours of Boulder course, he was loping along like a wiry old coyote. “My body just tells me how fast to go,” he says.

But like his daughter’s—and, come to think of it, his wife’s—his mind has a little something to do with his ultrarunning success, too. A capacity for deep concentration, fending off boredom, and the ability to run through adversity seems to run in the family genes.

In her first Leadville 100, which was her second 100-mile race, Stephanie had a terrible time, vomiting for more than half of the race. “But I felt committed to finishing no matter what. At that time, I didn’t think there was a chance to push myself to serious problems, and I thought it was just mind over matter. It was pure misery, but you know, when I finished, precisely because it was so difficult, it was life changing for me,” she says. “It empowered me to do a lot of things, including change careers.”

THE VARIOUS RUNNING PHILOSOPHIES Dick makes himself run, even when he doesn’t feel like it. “Running is fun, and it keeps you healthy,” he says. “People think it’s so much work, but only occasionally is it a lot of work. If you don’t want to run, go run. You’ll be glad you did.”

And the harder the run, the better, he says: “I love to run uphill, into the wind. Running uphill is no harder than running downhill. It’s just a mental thing.” And Cynthia scoffs at the notion that circling a track or other short course for 12 or 24 hours is boring. “

You’ll only get bored if you allow yourself to get bored,” she proclaims. Since the family has been going to races together for six years, it’s a little surprising that it took so long for them to team up for a relay. The inaugural 24 Hours of Boulder seemed an opportunity they couldn’t pass up. “

Steph actually had the idea that the family should do something together,” Cynthia says.

The quartet made their base camp in Peter and Stephanie’s fully outfitted van at the Boulder Reservoir and chose Dick to go out first. Despite his impressive running resume, he admitted he had butterflies. “I guess I always get butterflies,” he says.

Not that that would ever stop him. In fact, just weeks before the race, he was excited to be participating in the annual Ride the Rockies bicycle tour, which winds more than 300 miles through the Colorado mountains, with three friends. Alas, one friend thought better of the idea, and the other two were facing health problems that left them unable to ride. “I’m still planning on doing it,” he says.

Cynthia will continue to walk, she says—every day, rain or shine—and crew for her daughter or son-in-law when asked. And if the event is right, and there is plenty of time to stand around, you can bet that she will be on the course herself, striding steadily along, listening to jazz or the news on her earphones.

As for Stephanie, she seems to think she is reaching—perhaps even has reached—some kind of zenith in her already impressive career. At least she talks that way. “I really get a lot out of working with people getting into the sport,” she says. “I like to help them get excited about it, answer their questions. The one thing that ultrarunning has always been for me is an arena for self-growth. I continue to get that out of the sport. I continue to do it for that reason.”

Maybe so. But here’s a bit of advice for any potential competitors, from none other than her mother: “Competition is in her blood,” Cynthia says. “I think it always will be.”

Peter Bakwin

Cynthia accompanies Dick during the final lap of the 24-hour race.

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This article originally appeared in Marathon & Beyond, Vol. 9, No. 2 (2005).

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